“You must be shapeless, formless, like water. When you pour water in a cup, it becomes the cup. When you pour water in a bottle, it becomes the bottle. When you pour water in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Water can drip and it can crash. Become like water my friend.”
Bruce Lee
You are a complex being with a range of emotions, personality traits, wants, and proclivities that influence how you are likely to react in any given moment.
Notice your habits, your ways of responding automatically in the moment, and then work actively to shift them. Don’t be a slave to your subconscious.
Think about how you can best show up in the world, and take actions to make that happen.