Results are a direct consequence of the actions you take to respond to the events in your life. Two people can respond to the same event in very different ways, yielding different results.
If you don’t like the results you are getting in life—results at work, results at home, results with your health, or results with your relationships—it means that the actions you are taking in response to the events in your life are not effective.
So try something different. Do the opposite. Or take the action that you feel like a role model of yours would take if they were in the situation you are in.
If you change your approach, and change your actions, you’ll get different results. Keep changing your approach until you get the results you want. Then rinse, wash, and repeat.