How committed are you to getting what you want?
The more committed you are, the more likely you are to get it.
If you are sort of committed, if you think you “should” do something but aren’t fully committed, you may or may not get what you want. If your want takes any substantive action to get most likely you won’t get it.
But if you turn your should into a will. If you turn your should into a must. Oh, what amazing things will happen.
If you dabble, you may be disappointed. If you decide you must, if you truly commit, you can accomplish the incredible.